to Disappear from your friends and family
You probably feel awful. You're so embarrassed you just can't show your face. Somewhere you lost the plot, this isn't how it was supposed to turn out. You need to disappear. Start again.
From the huge number of people that reach this page with the keywords "how to disappear from my family and friends" I guess there must be lots of you who want to disappear.
Step 1. Plead Guilty. If you're guilty be honest about it. If you've done something admit it. You don't ever have to disappear from yourself. You need to know exactly why you're disappearing. What you did or what they did is not the reason. The reason is how it makes you feel. It's okay to have fucked up. Sometimes you need time to fix yourself, but always remember at some point you will want to go back.
Step 2. Make a nest. Somewhere nice. It takes effort, so be prepared. You need an intermediate destination, somewhere you don't mind giving up if you need to, but somewhere you are happy to stay. A poky little place in a bad area is ideal. No one expects anything from you if you're in a bad area. The rent is cheap, people are interesting, there's always something to improve, especially when the people around you are worse-off than you.
Step 3. Make friends. Here's something I bet you didn't know - you don't have to like your friends. Make friends with someone who will cover for you, and you can do the same for them. Homeless people are perfect for this, after all, they've disappeared and are walking right there in front of you. But you don't want to end up like that, it isn't nice, trust me.
Step 4. Don't let yourself go. You've got to keep it together, baby. Lose your illusions, be real. Don't let something slide, take care of it, no matter how small. Learn to be neat, it will affect everything you do. You can't disappear if you're untidy minded. No loose ends.
Do not get involved in crime or bad things. Just avoid it completely. No exceptions.
Step 5. Walk away, don't run away. You are leaving for a reason, not because you're afraid. It's okay to leave, just don't hurt anyone too much when you do.
Clean yourself up. Because at some point you will want to go back.