ZEN LI'S
THE ART OF LOVE


Chapter 1. Seduction - How to seduce her
The second most important part of seduction is to be a man. You gotta want her, know that when you get her you'll know how to treat her, how to take care of her, how to be man to every part of her that is a woman. Every woman wants to be taken care of, doesn't matter if they say they're new-age or feminist or 'not into that whole role playing thing' or whatever. She wants you to make her feel like an innocent girl, be strong for her. Not quite a father figure, not quite a brother, something even better. Do not be afraid to be a man. Be a complete man, be the best man you can be. Improve yourself. Always be a true gentleman, follow the Rules of The Last Gentlemen, always.

Seduction is not about her, it's about you.

Every woman will give herself to you, if you persevere without irritating her. It doesn't matter if she's a supermodel or rich or classy. Learn to recognise that fleeting moment, don't miss it.
It doesn't matter if you're ugly, poor, but you have to be sincere. Women want that connection, to feel like there are no insecurities between you. Women are all about insecurities.

Timing is everything with women. Mean what you say, be a nice person, be the best you can be with what you have. If you're an asshole who is rude to waiters, forget it, even if you get her it won't last. Be a nice guy, always.

Don't be ashamed of who you are. Look as good as you can, doesn't matter if you're ugly, but if you're untidy then it will be almost impossible to seduce her. Women are all about clean smells and hygiene and neatness. They have to be. Clean up your act.

A woman is built to have children, even if she doesn't want any. She needs someone who can be a protector, companion, lover, brother, caretaker... but never a bully. Someone who will be there next year. Someone who will make a good father (don't confuse this with being her father).

Give her clues about you. But don't make it seem creepy. Women hate creepy, even though it can be a turn-on for men. Don't tell her, "I love giving massages" because it implies you sleep around. That you want her just for a quickie. Creepy. Rather say, "Have you ever tried a head massage? I hear its wonderfully relaxing, I want to try it with someone one day." Let her subconscious fill in the pieces, go beyond, engage her imagination. Women are all about imagination.

Write. This is the most important part. Women are all about words. When you write to her you speak to her soul, and she can't interrupt you or change the subject. Don't be afraid to write about important things, be sincere but never pathetic. Reveal your weakness, and your ability to overcome it.

Chapter 2. Seduction - How to seduce him
Take off your clothes. But never reveal everything. It's the strip show he's after, not the stripper. Don't tell him everything, give him clues to find it himself. Men are all about discovery.
Talk, but don't talk too much. Explore with him. Be interested in his world. Men want someone to grow with.